When it comes down to it, a younger woman satisfies one of the most basic human needs: connection.(I talk about this more in my book, .)This is a need that is different for men and women at different stages in their lives.
(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.
Young adult women typically have more of a need for connection.
While they will create careers, they also want to eventually create a family.
For their part, the men like the sophistication and life success of their older mates, she explains.
The much touted idea that women peak sexually in their 30s and men in their teens does not enter into it -- most of these couples are beyond both those age periods.
It’s pretty common for men to date younger women – which is exactly why dating older women is so enjoyable.